The Tradition of Tantra Massage
The ancient wisdom of the East teaches us about the energies of life, love, and sexuality and how we can unite the body, mind, and soul in order to turn our lives into a sacred practice. Tantra is a way of living that helps us to become more open, fully present in the moment, in a state of relaxation and awareness.
Through the intense awakening of erotic pleasure and sensitivity, we can expand and refine our state of consciousness. We achieve this state of expansion by using and controlling the sexual energy, allowing it to flow up through the body, instead of losing the energy through ejaculation or discharging orgasms.
In Tantra the erotic fusion between man and woman is a tool to reach the greatest ecstasy, the highest consciousness, the Supreme Being.
Tantra is a revolutionary approach to life that allows us to live with intensity and awareness. With Tantra we approach life by always saying ‘Yes!’. Tantra is the attitude of always staying open to perceive the deeper meanings of our experiences.
It is a state of acceptance where we embrace life in order to expand the consciousness and horizons of our being.
In modern society, there is a common misconception that Tantra is merely a series of exercises for ‘better sex’ or a series of mental exercises without an erotic union.
In actual fact, the erotic aspect of Tantra makes up about 10 % of the entire system of Tantra. Therefore sexuality is a completely natural part of Tantra, just as natural as the wisdom of how to be happy and healthy.
Tantra teaches us that everything is made from energy, and teaches us techniques to use, increase and refine this energy in all areas of our lives.
The Tantric approach to Sexuality
During erotic union, the consciousness of both partners joins together. In the beginning, this fusion occurs between the lovers, and eventually, they become unified with Cosmic Consciousness.
This is due to the amazingly powerful intensity of the sexual union. The indescribable pleasure felt by lovers who have joined with Cosmic Consciousness embraces all things and beings. All that remains is a limitless thirst for unity, only a Lover and a Loved one.
Tantra is a genuine spiritual path that puts sexuality in its rightful place, recreating the missing spiritual dimension of the erotic experience. This practice expands the human consciousness to the greatest extent and considerably enriches our knowledge of Man and the Universe.
Tantra is much more than an old rediscovered wisdom from the East and much more than theoretical science. Tantra is a practical path with clear steps for those who are ready to experience and understand the full potential of life.
Controlling the Sexual Energy
An absolutely essential practice in Tantra is to have full control over the sexual energy, which makes it possible to experience orgasms in the entire body without ejaculating.
Orgasm and ejaculation are two different mechanisms. The orgasm comes first with a great amount of energy and pleasure which can bring about ejaculation. Therefore it is a general misunderstanding that these are actually the same process.
However, a gradual process of training can separate these two mechanisms. This separation allows the man to experience long-lasting multiple orgasms without losing a drop of semen, and the woman to experience deep and powerful orgasms without any discharge of energy.
Through Tantric lovemaking we can increase the pleasure and intensity, leaving us full of energy instead of being exhausted. We even receive and regenerate a lot of energy during Tantric lovemaking.
We deepen the state of communion in the couple’s relationship and thus create more love and happiness.
The man will become more masculine, gain the capacity to experience more pleasure, gain control over his energy and become fully present with his woman.
The woman will become more feminine, open herself for deeper orgasms, and gain the capacity to surrender to her man in full love and trust.
How to Experience Tantra through Massage
The Tantra Massage is a deeply relaxing, rejuvenating, and healing experience that awakens your sensitivity and energy, and increases your capacity to experience more pleasure.
In the Tantra Massage, your erotic energy is awakened in a controlled way.- This energy is spread throughout the body and used to heal the body, mind, and soul. Instead of losing energy through ejaculation and explosive orgasms, you will learn to circulate and raise your erotic energy to very high states of pleasure and you will become fully energized and contented on all levels of your being.
What to expect
After you reserved your appointment, please arrive on time, but no need to come earlier. Your masseur will welcome you and you will have a short chat, to get to know each other and undertsand what the massage is about. It is for the best that you let your masseur know where you’re at.
You then will have a shower and go to the room, laying down naked on the mattress and relax. Your masseur will join you shortly. He will wear boxers/she will wear a G-string, throughout the entire massage.
During the massage it is best if you focus your attention on the touch and immerse in all the perceptions. You are invited to give feedback, especially if there is anything uncomfortable.
At the end of the massage, your masseur will bring you some fresh water and fruits, and you are welcome to share your experience.
How to prepare before the massage
When you make the booking, you can choose to receive a massage from a male or female therapist, or if you have a preference, according to what makes you feels safer, particularly in the beginning.
It is better not to come with preconcepts, but allow yourself decide when the time comes if you would like to recieve a yoni massage or not.
Read more about TM for Women
We do NOT offer you lingam (penis) massage. That way you can discover new erogenous zones and learn to expand your awakened energy in the entire body, not limited to the genital area. It is possible to learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation through this massage.
You will always be massaged by a female therapist.
Read more about TM for Men
A tantra massage in the Tantra Temple is a loving and respectful massage and it has nothing to do with sex or intercourse.
You will find that a tantra massage in the Tantra Temple is an initiation where the masseur opens up and transfers his or her own deep experience gained through many years of tantric practice and tantra studies.
Conscious, loving and sensual touch is a communication and teaching without words.
We offer Tantra massage to both men and women, singles and couples. We also offer Tantra courses and lectures about Tantra, and we teach Tantric masssage to couples.
As a guest in the Temple, you will feel enchanted by the sacred atmosphere that takes you out of the routine of daily life, and into a world of magic and mystery.
The human touch is the silent gateway to our heart.
Tantra massage experiences
2-hand or 4-hand massage is also available of different durations. Time makes all the difference: the longer the time, the deeper the experience.
Given times include a before and after talk, a shower, and the tantra massage (with or without yoni massage for women).
Option 1 – AWAKEN
Duration: 2 hours (app.1,5 hours massage)
Take the first step to discover yourself and awaken your being!
The perfect option for your initial experience
*Does not include yoni massage
Option 2 – EXPAND
Duration: 2.5 hours (app.2 hours massage)
Relax and go deeper into yourself!
Explore and get familiar to your erotic energy, feel the awakening of sensuality in your entire body
*Possibility of yoni massage
Option 3 – UNITE
Duration: 3 hours (app.2,5 hour massage)
Connect to your soul, true inner nature and source of love!
Explore psychological and therapeutic aspects, solve blockages and traumas
*Possibility of yoni massage
Our add-ons are a way to help you work with the erotic energies awakened during the tantra massage and to become more conscious of your inner state. They are all done under the skillful guidance of your masseur.
Meditation – 15 min
You can choose between 3 different meditations:
- Awaken Your Heart – can increase your capacity to love and feel compassion.
- Mental Clarity – can increase your awareness and control over your mind, clearing your thoughts.
- Spiritual Awakening – can expand your consciousness and merge with the universal consciousness, going beyond all the daily life concerns into the state of transcendence.
Tantric techniques – 30 min
Tantric techniques, specially chosen by the masseuse for you, for opening your being before the massage, so your experience will be more profound. After the massage techniques that emphasize refining your erotic energy, so the Tantric experience will be more crystallized.
Relaxation – 15 min
A guided session of the complete yogic relaxation. It will help you to deepen the profound relaxing effect of the massage, being present in your body here and now. It allows the erotic energies to empower the state of relaxation in your being.
The tantric teaching states that happiness is possible only on the background of relaxation. Many of us burdened by the stress of the full lifestyle in our era, can use a little help in going back to the state of relaxation and reconnect to the state of happiness.
DISCLAIMER: Please notice that even though there are many beneficial and curative effects of a tantra massage within all aspects of life, a tantra massage cannot replace a medical treatment, and if you have physical or psychic problems we strongly recommend that you consult a doctor and follow his/her instructions. We also require that you inform us about any such issue prior to your massage. We also draw your attention to the fact that we cannot be held responsible if you choose not to consult a doctor or choose not to follow his/her instructions.
The Tantra Temple is a safe space where you can explore yourself, your heart and your sensuality, as well as your patterns regarding intimacy, openness, ability to stay present within your body, to relax and be fully conscious when experiencing intense energy or emotions.